Dec 20

Should I tell my gf I cheated on her?

i have been with my girlfriend for a little over two years now. i gave her a promise ring, and i gave her my word to one day marry her. i have every intention of fulfilling my word and i love the girl to death. However, i made a huge mistake about a year ago of cheating on her with two different people while i was away at college. It was one time with each girl, and the second time i couldnt do anymore and i walked out and havent done anything like it since. It has torn me apart ever since ive done it, and i even cried about it the minute after it happened. I wasnt thinking at all and was just being stupid. Letting my hormones get the best of me. It meant nothing to me and i would never do it again. Part of me tells me that i shouldnt tell her because ive learned from my mistakes and that ive already all but killed myself over it. I wouldnt want anything to happen to us, especially over such a dumb mistake. The other part of me wants to tell her just because i feel like it is her right to know. Personally, i know i would be so angry if she did the same to me. So should i tell her, or should i just do my best to ignore it? I feel so terrible having done it.

1 comment

  1. bigtomesz

    No body is perfect, we all have done things that we are not proud of, that being said it makes no sense to bring this up. You love her right, so don’t hurt her, from this day on love her and only her.



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