Dec 17

What do I do when my relationship is going to shit, but deeply love the girl?

I’ve been dating the girl for 2 years. (Senior year of high school and just finished Freshman year of college). We dated in the earlier years of high school too, but I admit I was too immature back then.
First month started out great. Then she started lying to me…..a lot. I kept giving her chance after chance after chance…horrible mistake. She took advantage of that. She would lie to me, and cover it up so good that she would make ME FEEL BAD for questioning her. She thrives off of drama. She snoops around my email accounts and laptop trying to find pics of girls and porn. Every guy watches porn. If he doesn’t, he’s either lying or he’s gay. All my friends say I need to leave her, I’m too young for this much stress and drama. But it’s NOT THAT EASY. I love this girl more than any girl that i’ve ever dated. She is my FIRST serious relationship/love.
WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?


  1. nikke0528

    First of all, you can’t possibly trust her if she’s going through your stuff. Trusting your partner is a serious thing in any relationship. Without trust and honesty, you have nothing. As far as her making u feel bad for questioning her, she is being immature and I definatly think you need to take a second look at the relationship. Do you think it is worth the stuff that you go through? Maybe ur friends know whats best for you.. U could tell her to change or it is done. Give her an ultamatum= Change and help make the relationship stronger, or i’m gone..


  2. bigtomesz

    hey man follow your heart but i think you should tell her how u feel because you said u love her and all so if she loves u back shed stay with u even if u told her all this stuff i dont know just my opinion but if u don’t listen to the just follow your heart


  3. bigtomesz

    Find someone proper to love, who loves you. No need for the whole “in love love with being in love” Move on imo, might hurt at first, but you will be thankful later.



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